[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/kdyz-je-dite-v-puberte\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/kdyz-je-dite-v-puberte\/","headline":"Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b v pubert\u011b…","name":"Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b v pubert\u011b…","description":"N\u011bkter\u00fdm d\u011btem puberta za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 u\u017e v deseti letech, jin\u00fdm trochu pozd\u011bji, ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9, stejn\u011b jako ka\u017ed\u00fd dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk. Pubert\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b chce m\u00edt sv\u016fj klid, hlasit\u011b si pou\u0161t\u00ed hudbu, je kolikr\u00e1t drz\u00e9, m\u00e1 \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 v\u00fdkyvy n\u00e1lad. Up\u00edn\u00e1 se kolikr\u00e1t k r\u016fzn\u00fdm idol\u016fm. Hled\u00e1 samo sebe. Je nejist\u00e9. M\u016f\u017ee nosit \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 kreace, r\u016fzn\u00e9 barevn\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed ... P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst \"Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b v pubert\u011b…\"<\/span> »<\/a>","datePublished":"2022-05-14","dateModified":"2022-05-14","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53c590fdd1ec24ee297a15a00a0829b5191e9163e4cc5dbbee20ed40fcc30ad9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/53c590fdd1ec24ee297a15a00a0829b5191e9163e4cc5dbbee20ed40fcc30ad9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ibright.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/puberta.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/puberta.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/kdyz-je-dite-v-puberte\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":467,"articleBody":"N\u011bkter\u00fdm d\u011btem puberta za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 u\u017e v deseti letech, jin\u00fdm trochu pozd\u011bji, ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9, stejn\u011b jako ka\u017ed\u00fd dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk. Pubert\u00e1ln\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b chce m\u00edt sv\u016fj klid, hlasit\u011b si pou\u0161t\u00ed hudbu, je kolikr\u00e1t drz\u00e9, m\u00e1 \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 v\u00fdkyvy n\u00e1lad. Up\u00edn\u00e1 se kolikr\u00e1t k r\u016fzn\u00fdm idol\u016fm. Hled\u00e1 samo sebe. Je nejist\u00e9. M\u016f\u017ee nosit \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 kreace, r\u016fzn\u00e9 barevn\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed anebo se m\u016f\u017ee zahalovat jen do \u010dern\u00e9ho oble\u010den\u00ed.\u00a0V\u0161e je pro n\u011bho trapn\u00e9 Trapn\u00ed rodi\u010de, trapn\u00e1 \u0161kola, trapn\u00e1 babi\u010dka a d\u011bda.\u00a0D\u00edt\u011b dosp\u00edv\u00e1, m\u011bn\u00ed se jeho t\u011blo, hormony pracuj\u00ed. Z mal\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte se st\u00e1v\u00e1 dosp\u011bl\u00fd jedinec. Nechce vn\u00edmat autoritu. Vad\u00ed mu, \u017ee mu n\u011bco nakazujete, \u017ee mu stoj\u00edte za zadkem. D\u00edt\u011b chce b\u00fdt samostatn\u00e9. A ano, v\u0161e vid\u00ed \u010dernob\u00edle. Um\u00ed se vzteknout, protestovat. V pokoj\u00ed\u010dku m\u00e1 bordel. Oble\u010den\u00ed ze sk\u0159\u00edn\u011b d\u00e1v\u00e1 na \u017eidli. Jo pro\u010d ne? V\u0161ak to stejn\u011b zase vezme na sob\u011b \u2013 zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 d\u00e1vat do sk\u0159\u00edn\u011b.Kdy\u017e mu n\u011bco \u0159eknete, d\u00e1 o\u010di v sloup: „Co jeeee? No jooooo. Kl\u00eddeeek. Je\u017e\u00ed\u00ed\u00ed\u0161 matko…Jo ve \u0161kole dobr\u00fd. No u\u017e zase jo? Ty m\u011b v\u016fbec nech\u00e1pe\u0161!“ Je nejist\u00e9 a srovn\u00e1v\u00e1 se s ostatn\u00edmi, d\u00edvky porovn\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 t\u011blo s t\u011bl modelek a podobn\u011b. Nerado brzy vst\u00e1v\u00e1, nem\u00e1 r\u00e1do povinnosti. Povinnosti ty, kter\u00e9 ho nebav\u00ed. Neust\u00e1le je v opozici. A tak\u00e9 nem\u00e1 r\u00e1do, \u017ee kdy\u017e mu n\u011bco sl\u00edb\u00edte, \u017ee to nedodr\u017e\u00edte. I kdy\u017e k tomu vedly n\u011bjak\u00e9 okolnosti, kter\u00e9 jsou logick\u00e9 a pochopiteln\u00e9. Je neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9, jak n\u00e1s hormony ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed, co?Co s t\u00edm? Pochopte sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, vy jste byli stejn\u00ed v jeho v\u011bku. Pamatujete? Nastavte si jasn\u00e1 pravidla, Pochvalte ho a podporujte ho. Dejte mu d\u016fv\u011bru. Pov\u00eddejte si s n\u00edm, pokud bude cht\u00edt. Podporujte jeho zdrav\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Nemluvte s n\u00edm u\u017e jako s mal\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem. Ono u\u017e nen\u00ed mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Ned\u011bste se, \u017ee je d\u00edt\u011b v pubert\u011b, vy to dok\u00e1\u017eete, ano, vy to spolu zvl\u00e1dnete a toto si neust\u00e1le dokola opakujte. Chov\u00e1n\u00ed a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte neberte osobn\u011b, dejte mu jasn\u00e1 pravidla a tak\u00e9 si ponechte n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das, kter\u00fd bude jen pro va\u0161i osobu. Jd\u011bte s kamar\u00e1dy do kina \u010di na skleni\u010dku, jd\u011bte se prob\u011bhnout nebo zacvi\u010dit do fitka, zaplavat do baz\u00e9nu.P\u0159eji pevn\u00e9 nervy, ale vy to d\u00e1te!\u00a0 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b v pubert\u011b…","item":"https:\/\/www.ibright.cz\/kdyz-je-dite-v-puberte\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]